Prevow — Before you marry

Prevow is a guided premarital programme for engaged couples: ten conversations to have before you marry, paced to your wedding date. You each answer on your own, then talk together about money, family, conflict, children and the life you’ll share.

These are the questions before marriage that are easy to postpone — the ones everybody assumes will sort themselves out after the wedding. Prevow gives them a structure, then steps back. Low time in the app is the point: the conversation is meant to happen between the two of you, not on a screen.

How it works

1. Before we begin — you each tell us a little about yourselves, separately.
2. Answer on your own — whenever suits you, one chapter at a time.
3. Talk together — once you have both answered, sit down and talk it through, away from the screen.

The ten chapters

1. Money, and how you’ll decide
2. Family, and the two of them
3. Conflict, and how you repair
4. Careers, and whose moves
5. The home you’ll keep
6. Friendships and time apart
7. Intimacy and closeness
8. Children, and the question of them
9. Faith, ritual and the everyday
10. The first year, rehearsed

Conflict and repair come early, so you have already talked about how you disagree before the chapters that are harder to bring up.

Some shared, some private

Each question comes marked shared or private, so you know before you answer. You both see shared answers once the chapter is done. Your partner never sees your private answers.

Your Vowbook

At the end of each chapter, you write one line together, in your own words. Ten chapters, ten lines. Together they make your Vowbook — a shared record of your plans you can come back to after the wedding.

An AI coach, and a real person if you want one

Anika, your AI relationship coach, helps you untangle your thoughts before you talk. Your partner never sees that chat. If you would rather speak to a real person, express interest in a 1:1 session with a human coach in the app and we will reach out. Human coach sessions are priced separately; the price is shown in the app.

Written by people

Every premarital question in Prevow was written by people. The app adapts the wording to your situation, and it never scores or judges your answers.

What Prevow will never do

No scores. No percentages. No verdicts on your relationship.
No ads, and we do not sell your data.

Not therapy. Not a wedding planner. Not matrimonial discovery. Not a game. Prevow is practical marriage preparation for two people. If either of you needs professional support, please speak to a qualified professional.

Who it is for

Engaged couples, and anyone preparing to marry. Couples who said yes last week and couples with the date already printed. Couples who have known each other for years and couples who met four months ago — the questions adapt to how you got here.

Pricing

Chapter 1 is free for both of you, all of it. One payment then unlocks the remaining nine chapters for the two of you. No subscription, no per-person pricing.

Talk about the life you are about to share, before you marry. Start with Chapter 1, together.