HerStandard: Relationships

See the pattern. Stop guessing. Find relationship clarity.

Sometimes you need to talk it through before you know what to ask.

HerStandard is an AI-powered relationship clarity app for women navigating dating, marriage, and long-term relationships.

Talk through what's happening, explore your thoughts, and get personalized insights that connect conversations with your relationship history—helping you recognize patterns, notice change, and move forward with clarity.

TRY HERSTANDARD FREE

Start with two free situations, 10 additional conversation replies shared across them, and one analysis per situation. No subscription required. This is a one-time preview that does not reset.

TALK FIRST. GET CLARITY WHEN YOU'RE READY.

Start with what happened, how you feel, or a question you can't shake. Add context, ask follow-up questions, and explore next steps through conversation.

Type, use voice input, or attach screenshots of messages. Return to saved conversations whenever you want.

SITUATION ANALYSIS

When you're ready, turn your conversation into a structured analysis of communication, observed behaviors, consistency between words and actions, and practical next steps.

Not every difficult moment establishes a pattern. HerStandard helps you reflect without jumping to conclusions.

PERSON MEMORY

With your consent and person memory enabled, HerStandard uses notes from saved conversations and analyses to personalize future responses. Review, correct, exclude entries, or turn memory off.

RELATIONSHIP INSIGHTS

Explore insights informed by your saved history to recognize recurring challenges, meaningful improvements, and changes over time. Pro Person Insights helps you focus on a particular person.

QUICK LOG

Capture everyday moments—from connection and follow-through to missed commitments and difficult interactions—to build useful context over time.

YOUR HISTORY, TOGETHER

Find saved conversations, analyses, and Quick Logs in one activity timeline. Filter by person, revisit moments, and continue conversations without starting over.

WHY HERSTANDARD

No games. No manipulation. No “how to keep them interested.”

Thoughtful AI-powered support to help you:

• Talk through confusing interactions
• Explore communication and relationship dynamics
• Recognize consistency and follow-through
• Notice progress and recurring challenges
• Reflect on boundaries and personal standards
• Consider your next steps with more context

Whether you're building a new connection or navigating an established partnership, HerStandard helps you see the bigger picture.

FREE PREVIEW + PRO

Free Preview:
• Two situations per account
• 10 additional conversation replies shared across them
• One analysis per situation
• Saved history remains accessible afterward

This allowance is one-time and does not reset.

Pro:
• Unlimited situation analyses
• Up to 200 conversation replies per week
• Person Insights
• Weekly or annual subscription options

Eligible subscribers in participating regions can try Pro free for seven days with an annual subscription. Prices and trial eligibility appear before purchase. Subscriptions automatically renew unless canceled. Manage or cancel in your App Store account settings.

HerStandard provides AI-generated insights for reflection and education. Responses may be inaccurate and cannot determine another person's intentions. It is not a substitute for professional medical, legal, or mental health advice.

See the pattern. Trust yourself.

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