Unspoken — between us

Some sexual preferences rarely come up in everyday conversation. Not because they're dirty — but because saying them out loud the first time is hard. Maybe you've had the thought: "Would my partner want this too? If yes, I don't know."

Unspoken is a small, quiet app for exactly that moment. You and your partner swipe — separately, unseen — through the same catalogue of wishes, practices, and fantasies: Yes, Maybe, No. What you reject or feel unsure about, your partner never sees. What they reject, you never see.

Only the answers you both mark "Yes" — the real intersections — surface later as shared discoveries. And not as a list you work through in a single evening, but slowly: individual matches, spread across weeks and sometimes months, as small push notifications to you or your partner. The point isn't to tick off a catalogue. The point is to keep things in motion between you — month after month, a fresh nudge.


FOR WHOM

For couples who've been together for years and want to feel sparks in bed again — without having to negotiate every detail across an entire evening.

For couples ready to go further: who've already tried plenty together and are curious what could come next.

For anyone who hesitates to voice certain things before being sure the other person wants them too. Unspoken does the asking for you: when the match appears, you both know it's a mutual Yes.


HOW IT WORKS

• Install Unspoken for free and browse at your own pace — every category, every preference, no commitment.
• Once you've decided to invite your partner, you open the pairing with a one-time in-app purchase. The app stays free for your partner.
• You send the invitation link, you both swipe at your own pace, from wherever you are.
• Matches arrive trickled out as push notifications, spread across weeks and months.
• What you do with them is up to the two of you.


WHAT MAKES UNSPOKEN DIFFERENT

• Privacy by architecture, not by promise. Your answers are hashed cryptographically on-device; the server never sees what you ticked. Not even the developers can reverse the hashes.

• No ads. No trackers. No recommendations based on what other couples answered.
• No account, no profile, no real name. Each device gets a random anonymous ID — paired to your partner via the invitation link, to no one else.
• You both see the same intersection — but only when there's a "Yes" on both sides. No one-sided "one of you sees something the other doesn't".
• Built for the long run. Unspoken wants to keep you and your partner in conversation over time, not just for one evening. Each match arrives individually, with real spacing — momentum that lasts, instead of a checklist for date night.


IMPORTANT

Unspoken shares nothing with third parties. There's no matching with strangers, no public profiles. The app exists only for the connection between you and your partner.