Merged - Gay Chat & Date

Merged is the gay chat & dating app designed to help men discover, match, chat and meet with more confidence. Whether you’re looking for chats, dates or something more, Merged brings every way to connect together in one place.

Meet gay, bi and queer men, discover local guys and find people looking for the same kind of connection as you.

📍 DISCOVER GUYS NEARBY
See who’s around with Discover, Merged’s location-based profile grid.
Browse profiles of local guys, find people who catch your attention and start making new connections nearby. Whether you’re at home, visiting somewhere new or heading out for the evening, Merged makes meeting gay men near you simple.

📲 SWIPE TO FIND YOUR MATCH
Prefer to match first?
Swipe through profiles, show your interest and connect when the feeling is mutual. From casual dates and new friendships to something more meaningful, your next match could be one swipe away.

💬 CHAT AND GET TO KNOW HIM
Found someone interesting? Start a conversation.
Chat with guys, learn more about each other and decide where the connection goes next. Merged makes gay chat simple, whether you’re breaking the ice, planning a date or just seeing who’s out there.

😈 MEET NOW
Looking to make plans without the endless back and forth?
Meet Now helps you discover guys nearby who are currently open to meeting. Find someone wanting the same thing, at the same time, and turn an online conversation into a real-life connection.

✅ SAFER DATING, BUILT IN✅
Meeting someone new should feel exciting—not uncertain.
Merged includes practical safety features designed to help you make more informed decisions and keep someone you trust updated when you arrange a date.

VERIFIED PROFILES
Verify your Merged profile with one selfie.
Our profile verification process compares your verification selfie with the photos on your profile, helping demonstrate that you are the person shown in your pictures.
Look for the verification badge when browsing profiles and connect with greater confidence that the guy you’re talking to resembles the person in his photos.

🫂 SHARE MY DATE
Let a trusted contact know about your plans before meeting someone new.
Share who you’re meeting, where you’re going and when the date is taking place. Check in during your date to let them know everything is okay, or request a Swift Exit when you need help leaving an uncomfortable situation.
It’s an extra layer of reassurance for your dating life, without sharing your location continuously.

Whatever brings you here - a date, friendship, conversation, relationship or a spontaneous meet - Merged helps you find guys who want the same.

One app. More ways to connect.
Match. Meet. Merged.

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