Spilled: Dating Journal

You already know. Spilled helps you trust it.

Log what actually happens with the person you are seeing. Spilled reads between the lines, tracks the patterns, and gives you real reads on what you are watching. Like a wise friend who has been there the whole time.

THE JOURNAL FOR WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THE MATCH

You met him on a dating app. The conversation moved to text. The first date felt great. The second one got cancelled. Now you are three weeks in, trying to figure out if this is something or nothing.

Spilled is the journal you wished you had between dates. Use it alongside the apps you already use. Log what actually happens, not the highlight reel. Spilled does the pattern-watching so you do not have to.

HOW IT WORKS

1. Log what actually happened. Type it like you would in your group chat. "He cancelled 30 minutes before." "Surprised me with flowers." "Left me on read for two days." Tap the tags that fit, or with Pro, let Spilled read your entry and tag it for you.

2. Watch the patterns surface. A consistency score from 0 to 100. Flags for breadcrumbing, high cancellation rate, hot and cold cycles, broken promises. Math on what you logged, not guesswork.

3. Tap a pattern and get the read. A personalized written read on what your data is showing. Specific to your situation, grounded in your own entries.

YOUR ENTRIES ARE YOURS

Your journal lives on your phone. The people you log about cannot find, search, or access anything in Spilled. Even if they download the app, your data is invisible to them. We never store your entries on our servers.

WHAT YOU GET FREE

- Unlimited connections
- Unlimited entries
- Manual tag picking
- Consistency score with zones
- Basic pattern flags
- Score time filters (7d, 30d, 90d, all)

SPILLED PRO

Free gets you started. Pro is where the depth lives.

- Smart tagging that reads your entry and tags it for you
- Live personalized pattern reads
- Score trend chart over time
- Compare connections side by side
- Full timeline with filters
- Deep community insights from other women using Spilled
- Shareable anonymous export
- Smart check-in reminders

WORKS WITH THE APPS YOU ALREADY USE

Spilled is meant to be used alongside Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, or any dating app. You match there, then track what actually happens here. The apps get you the matches. Spilled helps you read the patterns once you are talking, dating, or in a situationship.

Whether you are wondering if he is breadcrumbing you, trying to read a situationship, watching for ghosting, or just want to trust what you have been seeing, Spilled gives you the data to back it up.

Download Spilled and trust what you have been seeing.

Spilled is an Apps That Help product, a brand of Decal Venue, Inc.

Recent changes:
19 new tags, including a new "How I felt" group.

Spilled now tracks the quiet patterns too: Passive, Mental load, Avoided responsibility, Breadcrumbing, Dishonesty, and Pressured, alongside their positive counterparts like Took initiative, Accountability, and Respected a boundary.
The new "How I felt" tags capture your side: Excited, Felt safe, Felt seen, Gut feeling,
Missing a tag? There's now a "Suggest one" link right under the tag chips.