The Thinking of You App

Thinking of You: The app that connects you two.

Hi, I'm really glad you're here.

I'm Topher Lawrence, and I built the Thinking of You app because I believe that what gets our attention gets our effort. And right now, it feels like too much in life pulls our attention away from what we're trying to keep together. We get busy. Work runs late. And life just spills into the spaces we thought we'd saved for each other. So we borrow against tomorrow by putting off today.

Well, I wanted something that quietly pushed back against all of that. I wanted to build an app that could create a bokeh effect for relationships... a place where the person who matters most stays in focus while the rest of the world simply fades away.

So every morning and every evening, you'll each receive a thoughtful note or question. You'll both have a chance to respond, but neither of you can see what the other has written until you've answered for yourself. No peeking. No being influenced by what the other person said. Just two honest answers.

There's also a private Chat and Send Your Heart: my simple, once-a-day way to let your person know they're on your mind. You only get one Heart to send, and there's only one person in the world who can receive it. I like to think of the whole thing as a secret treehouse that only you two know about.

This all happens in a dedicated space for just the two of you: no ads to watch, no subscriptions to buy, nothing competing for your attention. If that sounds like something your relationship could use, I'd be honored to have you try Thinking of You.

There are over eight billion people on this planet, and I want you to connect with just one of them.





How It Works

Twice daily couple prompts that will make you laugh, share stories, or just dream together.
Private space for couple chat — your answers stay just between you two.
Send Your Heart — a simple, unique way to show your partner you’re thinking of them.
Stay connected anywhere — perfect for long-distance or busy schedules.
Relationship tracker — look back on your answers and see how you’ve grown together.

Why Couples Love Thinking of You

It’s easy to use, sweet, and free from the noisy distractions found in other relationship apps for couples. Unlike apps that turn love into a competition, Thinking of You keeps it simple — no badges, no games, no point systems. Just daily moments that bring you closer, in a private space that belongs only to you two.

Whether you’re newly dating, married for years, or simply want to reconnect, Thinking of You makes staying close easy, fun, and meaningful.

Who it's Perfect For:

Couples in long-distance relationships
Partners with busy or opposite schedules
Anyone wanting to grow closer without pressure or keeping score
People who value privacy, simplicity, and presence

What Sets Thinking of You Apart?

Minimalist, clutter-free design
Encourages equal effort and mutual care
Only a few minutes a day to build real connection
No public sharing, no gamification — just intimacy, reciprocation, and trust

Latest Updates

The Thinking of You app is now free. No subscriptions.
Improved performance
New Donate button in the event that you'd like to buy me a cookie and a button linking directly to my Store. :)

An FAQ, privacy policy and contact information can be found at ThinkingofYou.app

This app is subject to Apple’s standard End User License Agreement: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/